Being single some say is the best feeling and the most accomplished thing anyone can do....hmm
Irrespective of the things outlined in religious texts and principles about the importance of marriage; the decision whether to go in for one or to remain single is essentially personal in nature where the rules of theologians should not come into play. This is true of the current situation marked by of stress,and struggle; in spite of all the technology of the present day
With much thrust upon competition and the rat race mentality; a man’s common place of existence is one of extreme struggle and stress. This in turn is working havoc on marriage and other relationships based on close bonding and trust. Sometimes the fear that things may not work out fine on home front or the fear of being heart-broken has pushed people into staying single.
People who are obsessed with career and personal growth often prefer staying single rather than facing the troubles of relationship and marriage.Lack of time, and the inability to share and care keep them away from relationships and marriage also.
Other than social and economic factors, there are people who preferred singularity over marital status on account of their lack of commitment rather than going for the hassles of serious relationships leading to marriage, most carefree and happy individuals choose to remain single. Why?
It is true,that humans long for and cherish freedom. But it is important to note that there are people both males and females who love freedom to the point of selfishness. It is imperative that they stay single on account of their inability to be flexible and adjust to come around to share with or care for others. So the inability to compromise and need for absolute freedom from interference or disciplining make people to stay single.
Just as inability to share emotionally can be problematic for some, leading them to the choice of being single; likewise inability to share financially can be a reason. With over elaborated stories of spouses nagging for money and possession going around; the choice of better management of financial prospects keep people especially men away from relationship and/or marriage.
People who are very egotistical without the ability to change or compromise often choose to remain single. With their all-encompassing ego being predominantly effective, such folks are unable to come around or modify to the ways of better halves or partners.
Marriages leading to divorce or relationships leading to break ups is one of the well trodden phenomenon. With far-reaching repercussions any form of break up or separation can turn out to be tremendously heart wrenching. If one is not into a serious relationship, one need not worry or anticipate such a turn of event. Thus fear of separation or one exposed to too many separations in the formative years of childhood may give way to fears and mental blocks about relationship and marriage.
In spite of their being too many moral inhibitions about indulging in sexual activities involving multiplicity of partners, similar orientation involving different partners is a well established reality. People beyond the bounds of marriage or serious partnership often take the advantage of their self-inflicted singularity so as to indulge in sexual revelry. Even married ones may be equally guilty. But the fact that one is single helps one to feel free.
Sometimes staying single over a long period of time on account of some genuine issues of financial concern helps one to pick on the right partner or soul mate. Irrespective of your status, there are some basic issues and principles to abide by. Regardless of the fact whether one is single or otherwise; we are all expected to maintain the minimum standards of decency and self-control.
the key to it all is to keep trying until the right one comes along…..''if you run and fall, stand up and continue running''.
